I talk to people. I talk to people a lot! I get to know them. I love hearing life stories…the happy stuff, sad times, troubles, proud moments, joyful memories, etc. I must admit though, I always hear stories about that one person that was just never happy with anything. You know the one…he/she gets mad at nothing, blames everyone but themselves when shit goes wrong, never says positive things, etc. We all know one!
They could be an aunt, uncle, mom, dad, sibling, so-called friend. And I may not be the smartest or give the best advice, but here goes. LET GO! Stop trying to please someone who doesn’t care. Stop being overly nice to someone who is constantly ugly to you. Don’t beat yourself up when they say or act like everything is your fault. Please understand that I’m not saying you should be mean and hateful. Just stop wasting energy and getting stressed for something that isn’t your issue to fix. It takes two people to make a relationship work. Friends and family relationships take work, but you gotta work together. If that person is not willing to do his/her part, let go.
I have personally dealt with a person like this. I tried and tried and tried until I thought I would go crazy. I talked, apologized, was so nice, gave space, took the silent treatment, dealt with the hateful words….and for what? Life is a little too short to wade waist deep in crap. Some people just need some time to come around. They need to take a good look and realize you’re important too. And you need to realize your life can’t revolve around just one person who doesn’t give 100%. I know some of this comes off as me being cold and mean, but I promise I’m not.
Anyway, I hope this little bit helps and feel free to comment and vent! Venting does a lot of good! And feel free to disagree as well! Haha…I know this has probably made a few people think I’m horrible.
States are relinquishing control of education to the federal government. This takes education out of the hands of the States and the teachers. Does anyone else see why this is a major problem??? The federal government is now telling each state, that adopted this “standard”, how to run their school. States that wanted to apply for grant funds associated with the Barack Obama administration’s Race to the Top (RTTT) program were required to adopt the Common Core. Does that sound right to you? Basically, these standards are not that “optional”. States were not even sure what they were adopting since the actual criteria for Common Core was not presented to them. And the cost to change over to this is staggering.
The standards are supposed to be flexible, but they aren’t. A child struggling with reading and/or math will have a very hard time keeping up. Teachers are pressured to cover all the federal sanctioned lesson plans and some kids will get “left behind”. Hmmmm…. We can’t blame the teachers either. The lesson plans and curriculum has been taken out of their hands.
Education is supposed to be in the hands of the States, not the federal government. Our teachers should be “teaching” our children, not being told that they have a time limit and that the kids should be teaching themselves. Take a moment and look up CCSS.
This gun issue has caused quite a stir among Americans.
People are so quick to blame guns when something happens. It really pisses me off.
Bombs go off and the bombers are blamed. A school stabbing tragedy happens and the person holding the knife is blamed. A school shooting happens and all hell breaks loose with guns being blamed. Seriously?!? I mean, damn, why not put background checks on knives and outlaw crockpots! Haha! Get real people.
Bad people are going to do bad things with ANY object.
Pots, knives, baseball bat, a pair of scissors, a hammer, a brick, a vehicle….hell, I’ve beat up a guy (he hit me first by the way!) with my shoe before!
Putting a ban on certain weapons won’t stop violence. Expanding background checks won’t make bad guys turn good. A big percentage of kids that go to school with a gun stole the damn thing to begin with. They didn’t purchase it, they stole it.
I’m also tired of hearing this stupid “90%” comment from some people. 90% of Americans never agreed with this gun control bill to begin with. Politicians spit out numbers and percentages all the time. Do your research guys. And the NRA is NOT the mob! Lots of people are acting like the NRA dished out threats and such to Senators about this bill….really?!? The NRA is not backing Senators into a corner and threatening them.
Bottom line: In my opinion, guns are not the problem. People are the problem. People do bad things without a care in the world. They choose to do harm to people, not caring how many others are also hurt by their actions. People hurt people with all kinds of objects. It’s not the object, it’s the individual that chooses to take another person’s life.
Well, the ‘Burbs have been having some funny drama! We’ve had two chicks arguing that resulted in one having to pack up and leave. Rambo is still MIA, but his wife has been busy clearing out the house. Crazy religion lady at the end of the street got a little out of hand and then retreated to her lair.
There were two chicks living one house up from us. They have been having arguments very regularly…shouting, cussing, throwing things, etc. Now, I only heard a few shouts here and there, but they each took turns coming over to my house to fill me in on the latest fights. One lady was always coming over yelling and acting crazy. Anyway, two weekends ago, I noticed the crazy one packing up her car. She just had to stop by here before she left. I was told about a huge fight that led to screaming and throwing glasses. Crazy, crazy, crazy stuff. It’s been quiet since then so I wasn’t too disappointed when I found out that the lady that stayed is buying the house. Maybe it will stay quiet…maybe.
Crazy religion lady up the street decided to blame all the neighborhood kids for her child not having playmates. This woman took it upon herself to talk to the kids and ask them why they weren’t playing outside with her daughter. Really? What mature adult does that? If you have a question about something like that you walk your butt to the neighbors’ houses and talk to the parents. She was politely informed that her child is rude, disrespectful, and mean to all the other children. She basically stomped back into her little lair and hasn’t been heard from.
I still haven’t seen Rambo across the street. I don’t know where he has run off to, but his wife has been “cleaning house” for the past week. Just the other day she and two other guys were literally throwing furniture and stuff out into the yard. They were breaking tables and hitting chairs against trees to bust the legs off of them! They stacked small tables and took turns busting them up. Oh and the wife was laughing hysterically and videoing the whole time! A moving truck showed up this morning but I can’t imagine what they would be loading up. Hell, everything was practically in the yard broken.
Well, there you have it. Just another crazy couple of weeks in the ‘Burbs!
Working from home is searched online countless times everyday. There are so many people looking to gain and/or maintain a comfortable lifestyle from home instead of having to deal with traffic, gas prices, childcare, etc. As an Army wife, I have seen so many spouses looking to do the same thing. Working from home during deployments makes life a little easier as well.
Everyone wants to make money. Everyone wants to live comfortably instead of paycheck to paycheck. However, there are SO MANY that do work through Avon, Scentsy, MaryKay, etc. I’m not downing these companies, but the success rates suck! Think about it. You have so many spouses at one post and a ton of them selling Avon…each consultant is gonna have a pretty hard time finding a demand for those products. It’s the same with the others I named. Why settle for selling makeup or smelly stuff for just a little bit of money when you could make a decent income actually working? Why stuff envelopes or make hundreds of cold calls everyday?
There are several companies out there that allow employees to work from home making a suitable income. I have checked out several of them and talked to women who work from home. There are credit card companies like Capital One that hire customer service reps to work from home. There are also mystery shopper jobs from home. You place calls to businesses like Pizza Hut to check their customer service and such. Here is a list of links you can check out.
Please keep in mind that those get rich quick schemes you see on t.v. aren’t always what they are cracked up to be. You don’t get rich over night and you don’t sit back while the money rolls in. These are JOBS that require work, real work. Some have set hours like any other job and some let you make your own hours. There are also freelance jobs available for writing and opinions. Check WAHM.com to find more work at home jobs too.
This is just crazy! Apparently, students at this school have been having to deal with money being stolen from their backpacks during gym class. I’m sure they all thought another student was responsible. I mean, it’s highschool! One student decided to take the matter into her own hands. Justine Betti took it upon herself to hide out in a locker inside the gym locker room to catch the thief. What she caught on video, using her Iphone, shocked her. The teacher hung around after all the students left, except Justine hiding, and rummaged through the bags taking things, including money.
She presented the video evidence to the principal. Instead of taking the proper action, he (the principal) told her to delete the video claiming he would take care of the matter. Justine had already sent the video to her dad. The teacher in the video is on administrative leave and now the media has gotten involved.
Kids are wonderful. Kids are precious. Kids make our world go round.
Kids have the power…to destroy a house in 3 minutes!
Admit it! Kids can seriously destroy a living room in the time takes you to fix a cup of coffee! All parents go through this lovely stage. We go through the dreaded time of trying to teach them to clean up their messes and pick up their toys.
My daughter is turning 10 this year and we still have a hard time getting her to keep her room clean, dirty clothes picked up, and putting her toys away after playing with them. We have used the chore chart in the past but that failed mainly because of me. I would have my daily things to do while she was at school and would end up doing her stuff just to get everything done. Ugh! It was very frustrating for me to clean the house but have to leave certain things undone. Another issue has been all her toys, crafts, and electronics left out. She leaves her stuff everywhere! My husband and I would gather her things and drop them in her room. That left me feeling kinda crappy though when I would stay on her about cleaning her room. I know I shouldn’t have felt that way, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that I made her room messy by chunking stuff in there.
Well, we have finally found an awesome solution!!! Drum roll please………….
The Ransom Box
We used one of my husband’s old Army boxes and a jar for the chores. Anything that she leaves out goes into the box and she must draw a chore from the jar to get an item back. She’s not allowed to go through the box at any time. She must do a chore to open the box and then she can go through and pick one thing. Last week she left her purse in the dining room, her craft box in the living room floor, and her school shoes under the kitchen table (again!). She realized her purse must have been put into the box so she asked if she could draw a chore. She completed her chore and went to the box. I waited to see what she would choose, since she NEEDS her school shoes. A few seconds later she walked into the living room and showed me her school shoes! Haha! This was her first lesson with the Ransom Box. It didn’t take her long to figure out that keeping her stuff put away nice and neat would save her from having to do chores to get her shoes out!
My next goal…figuring out how to get my husband to pick up his stuff!